AI Relationship Tool · GUROLO

Conflict Repair Tool — Calm Tension and Reconnect

Describe what happened between you and the other person. The AI helps you understand the conflict emotionally and generates repair messages you can actually send.

Use the Conflict Repair Tool

Be as concrete and honest as you can. The more details you share about what was said and how it felt, the more accurate and useful the repair suggestions will be.

AI Repair Session

From conflict to a realistic repair path

Describe the conflict, add relationship context if needed, and choose your goal. The AI will outline what went wrong, what both sides may be feeling, and offer messages you can adapt and send.

Include key sentences, tone and what seemed to trigger the reaction.

Repair suggestions

You will receive:

  • A calm summary of what happened, from both sides
  • What the other person may be feeling beneath the surface
  • Key repair moves you can make now
  • Concrete message drafts you can adapt and send

What this Conflict Repair Tool does

This tool helps you slow down after a conflict and see the situation more clearly. Instead of staying stuck in blame, guilt or shutdown, it walks you through what likely went wrong, what matters emotionally to both sides, and what would be a realistic next move.

You get language you can actually use: not perfect scripts, but grounded, human messages that balance honesty and care.

When to use this tool

After a fight or hurtful message

When words were exchanged in anger, sarcasm or silence, and you now want to repair but don’t know how to start.

When you feel guilty or misunderstood

If you regret what you said or feel that your intention was different from the impact, this tool helps you express that without shifting blame.

When the relationship matters

For partners, close friends, family members or important work relationships where you want to lower the emotional temperature and keep the connection.

It is especially useful for searches like “how to fix a fight”, “how to apologize properly”, “how to repair after saying something hurtful” and “how to reconnect after conflict”.

How the AI builds your repair plan

The AI does not judge who is right or wrong. It focuses on repair. It combines patterns from conflict psychology, attachment dynamics and non-violent communication to suggest:

  • What emotions may be active on both sides (hurt, fear, shame, anger, withdrawal)
  • Which parts of the conflict are about content, and which are about deeper needs
  • How to take responsibility without self-erasing
  • How to phrase repair messages that feel sincere, specific and non-manipulative

You keep full control: you can edit every sentence and only send what feels true to you.

Other GUROLO tools that pair well with this

Use these tools together with Conflict Repair to deepen understanding and improve your communication:

Perspective

Perspective Switcher

See how your message might have felt from their side before or after a conflict.

Open Perspective Switcher

Messages

Message Polisher

Turn a rough repair message into several softer, clearer and more grounded versions.

Use Message Polisher

Thinking

Thinking Partner

Explore the deeper pattern behind repeated conflicts and what they say about your needs.

Open Thinking Partner

Decisions

AI Decision Maker

Decide how far you want to go with repair, and what boundaries you need to keep for yourself.

Try AI Decision Maker